Humanity, Reality and Forgetting?

Yesterday I received a shock news from my mum, my dad's buddy have passed away..by accident. He has been knocked by 2 motorcycles on a role..ya..twice..imaging before he die..how painful he was..He was an old man who is in his age of late 60..and we are neighbor for more than 10 years before we move out of that area. My dad always hang out with him and they always companion each other for tea break.

He is a "soft" type of person (from what I knew him because his wife always scolded him), he was a high blood patient, after one incident, he has a bit of problem of walking and he became slow..Sometime when I paid a visit to my grandma, my grandma will told me his stories..that's was one, she told me that her daughter scolded him and wishing him die soon..and they wife also did not do anything about that..I am kind of shock because his daughter is a educated person, and hold a quite good position..how can she cursing her own dad to die? Well..maybe they are some "inside" stories which we as a outsider do not know..but anyhow, for my personal opinion, I still think this is not a right way to talk to elders..especially cursing..just imaging if next time she has children and she gave everything to this child but one day when the child grown up, and the child wish or cursing her to die soon..I just wondering how she feel?

I understand that "forgetting" is part of us..we always forget something that happen to us after sometime..and we also "sometime" forget about "love" and "humanity"..but we always keep "reality" in our mind..if the person is useless (which is reality), then he will gain no respect anymore..

I did not mean that this apply to all human being..just some of us starting to "forget"..I hope those who are "forgetting" what is love..please recall back all the sweet time that happen in the family..if it's still hard to get rid of this bad habit, then just use this bad habit on "bad" memories..

I am welcome to people who like to give comment about this post or you even can tell the story of yours..!